The tragic circumstances of Phoebe Prince’s suicide continue to unravel by the day. Rarely have the details of one particular case of bullying and suicide been in the public spotlight like Phoebe’s. Lisa and I have discussed the story on more than one occasion, and are shocked by its depravity, which has caught the attention of the entire nation.
The details that have emerged regarding the nature of the harassment that Phoebe had to endure on a daily basis are nothing short of disgusting. Her life was made a living hell by a group of teens that would stop at nothing to make sure that she was as miserable as possible during her every waking moment. Even worse, her school, which should have intervened and dealt with the situation promptly, turned the other cheek in her darkest hour, denying her the lifeline she desperately needed.
Depression stemming from incessant bullying is an aspect of children’s mental health that is imperative to address. Hopefully, Phoebe’s story can be an example for other schools to evaluate how they handle such situations, and maybe can serve as a reminder to those that harass others the impact of their words. There is no telling how many Phoebe Prince’s there are throughout the state – kids who are being subject to unrelenting taunts and humiliation, with seemingly nowhere to turn. Kids who feel that taking their own life is the only way to end the pain.
If there is anything positive that can come out of this tragedy, it is hopefully a heightened sense of awareness about the damaging power that bullying can have on children in their formative years. In this day and age with the prevalence of technology in society, along with the ability to connect with more people in more ways faster than ever before, the ability to harass and assassinate one’s character and dignity is has never been easier.
If it takes one child’s suicide to potentially change policies and attitudes that end up saving the lives of many other children, that would be the best possible outcome. That being said, every time I read an article about Phoebe, the picture of her smiling usually accompanies it. I can’t help but wonder if that was the last time she ever was able to truly smile.
For even though she may indeed help save the lives of others, her death is one too many.